Yes, that is how we do it!
When I was working on my Masters Degree in Biblical Studies, I was slightly amazed at the number of pastors who were LONELY AND DESIRING RELATIONSHIPS. There were hints, sometimes even bold statements, that pastors were supposed to work at not becoming too close with their congregants. I know I am new to PASTORAL MINISTRY, so I might be missing something, but I just disagree with that method of pastoring a church. God himself desired relationship, so much that he created us. He loves us, wants to be with us, and wants us to be with him. Since we are created in his image, doesn't it make sense that we also need authentic, deep relationships. I thought about that while I was reading Paul's letter to the church at Thessalonica. "For we speak as messengers approved by God to be entrusted with the Good News. Our purpose is to please God, not people. He alone examines the motives of our hearts........ We loved you so much that we shared with you not only God's Good News...
